
It
told the story of a priest and his lay associate who did just that: they
rebuilt and reawakened their parish. It combined humour with relate-able
difficulties for any who find themselves in parish life, but it did more, it
also offered doable next steps that resonated with me and made faith relevant
for my own parish family.
The book — and three others Father Michael White and Tom Corcoran have written
since — have influenced my ways of serving and leading. From introducing a
small-group ministry, to having screens in church, to focusing on hospitality
teams, (including a Café after Mass) to a social-media presence, to an
insistence on cleanliness in our facilities (that one was easy, I hate dust), to
the importance of mindful parish communications — from the homily to the
website— including weekly podcast, all started that night.

Whether
it was the amazing energy of the place, or the inspiring keynote sessions.
Whether the insightful breakout sessions or impacting networking. Whether
it was a humble but competent professional
staff or the hundreds of parishioner volunteers who would not stop smiling as
they shared a vision of making disciples and not letting people become passive
consumers of faith. I found myself re-embracing principles which have led my
ministry, and my parish, to become about one thing – offering every person in
our community a life changing encounter with Christ.
At
the Rebuilt Conference, I re-learned the importance of committed volunteers as
the key to guaranteeing the quality of the programs, avoiding always the
temptation to be a silo; something isolated from the rest of the parish (a
clique one might say). The idea that parishioners are not consumers or clients,
but rather people called to a mission of evangelization. These building blocks,
along with keeping the message, music and ministers (meaning the parishioners)
as first priorities on the weekend, are keys to the rebuilding
Church
of the Nativity, and the Rebuilt Parish Association, is part of the Amazing Parish initiative, as we are, and it is a privilege now to not only learn
from the best, but now to also share best practices (and some failures along the way on
our part) with other local, and event some distant, parishes that will help all of us
as we continue rebuilding our families of faith.
