Come Experience Christmas

The other day I made the biggest mistake - or so it seemed - of my entire life! I went to Toys R Us a few days before Christmas ! O my goodness - the chaos, the bedlam, the sheer madness. I should have known it was going to be an experience and a half  for as I was walking in, people were walking out with the dazed look that simply yelled out “run for your life while you can.”

As I made my way thru the isles of toys, bumped past shopping cards abandoned almost in a sense of hopelessness, as I paused every few minutes - well for oxygen - I finally encountered another exasperated adult who just looked at me and said “ Wow, Toys R Us must live for this day, it must be everything they prepare for all year round”.

First, let me say - I survived Toys R Us - barely - but I survived. Second, I discovered something: that even at Toys R Us there is a Christmas Lesson - and here it is: Christmas - We live for this day! It must be everything we prepare for !

Its so true ! We don’t come on Christmas to observe or even just celebrate with carols and hymns. As Disciples of Jesus we come on Christmas to Experience :

■ to experience hope in the night

■ to experience a peace which surpasses chaos

■ an overwhelming experience of God’s love

Now we have spent Advent waiting - for some that waiting may have shown itself in a little hint, an elbow or nudge here and there, hoping for a gift to be under the tree. But for others - there has been a deeper longing:

 waiting for a new job or financial security

 waiting for a new home or an acceptance letter into a college, university

 waiting for a new relationship or to repair the one that we have

 waiting for a new year - 2013 gotta be better than 2012

 waiting for suffering to end or grief to subside

 waiting for life to make sense, or our world to calm down

 waiting for hope, peace

 waiting for an answer to the ultimate question - Why?

Maybe we have come - and well - chaos has been a partner this year with us; maybe not as bad as the chaos at Toy R Us - or maybe worse. So Christmas is here !

Have you come to just observe?

Have you come to just celebrate ?

Have you come to just survive? - or maybe - just maybe - you have come to experience!

★ The hope of Christ which is ours if we seek it

★ That unspeakable joy of Christ which is ours if we claim

★ That unquenchable love of Christ which is ours if we make it our own

But we have to choose to experience it !

We come to truly experience Christmas because - well simply - because We live for this day! It must be everything we prepare for ! It is an eternal gift!

Tyler and Timmy, five year old twins, were sitting in their beds getting ready one night for their dad to come in and tuck them into sleep. Dad was a bit delayed because he was helping mom put their new born baby brother to sleep and it was taking a few minutes.

Tyler said to Timmy. "Mom and Dad seem happy with our new baby brother." "Ya," said Timmy, "but I think they were hoping for a girl." "Oh" said Tyler, "I see - well why don’t they return him and get a girl instead?" "Na" said Timmy - "we can’t return him - we have used him too much already."

God’s great gift - His only Son - Jesus Christ - is not a gift He will take back. His Light Shines...even in the sadness and madness of our world today. No Fiscal Cliff will cause the gift to be returned. No Madness in a Sandy Hook will cause Him to be extinguished and returned. His Light Shines...even in the sadness and madness of our world today. Jesus is here. We gather because His Light Shines - born in the manger - here for you and for me - - not to use, or just to observe or even celebrate with or about - but to fully experience.

Come experience Him this Christmas - don’t just use this gift - live it the gift - and do so in Hope. Hope in the experience of Christmas - it is found in hope with Christ! My prayer for you this Christmas - well its simple:

That just like on that first Christmas morning - as the angels came hovering, the star came shining over that simple manger - that God’s Holy Spirit will hover over your family this Christmas. That you will experience - truly experience Christmas - with its hope, with its light, with its joy, with its peace. 'Cause if my prayer is heard - well - this will be your best Christmas !

We Need His Light Like Never Before

On Thursday evening following our Advent Reconciliation Service, a mother and her small child remained in the Church. The mother was finishing her prayers and the child, a familiar face, was walking around as I returned chairs to their spots and extinguished candles. As I did his little voice blurted: “So what happens when the candles go out?” I paused, smiled and asked: “What do you mean ?” “On the wreath”, he quickly replied “I see you lite them, but what happens when the lights go out?” "Well”, I replied, “Advent goes on because of our prayers continue.”

This Friday, as we went about our Advent days and prayers - at 9:30am at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut. The lights went out. Not blown out by someone re arranging chairs, but blown out by an act of insanity and evil. A senseless crime which extinguished innocent lives at the start of their journey bringing to a conclusion the promised light which they could have brought to our world.

The unspeakable anger and bitterness within a human heart to have done this.

The destructiveness and danger of evil which is no respecter of the innocent.

The terrifying anguish and absolute heart breaking sorrow being experienced by families.

The myriad and plethora of questions which arise for each of us

The magnitude and scope of the sorrow which surface for all touched by this unspeakable crime.

The multiple and numerous lives which are forever affected

All of this is beyond what we can see, sense or even surface for ourselves.

We sat as the news broke with the re echoing question which seems to arise at moments such as these - "How could God allow such a horrific tragedy?" We may never discover the answer this side of heaven, but we know tragedy grieves the heart of God very deeply. Yet this we also do know - our light too has been shaken. Thought not intimately affected

■ Which of us on Friday after hearing the news did not call a loved one to ensure their safety?

■ Which of us entrusted with the care of children did not in our mind reflect what we could have done or would have done had we been faced with this evil act in our midst?

■ Which of us when the details came out did not think over our experiences at the same age and wonder if our lives today would be different if we had experienced what those in Newtown have?

■ Which of us when news reports brought more detail did not pause and ask ourselves - what is happening to our world and how did it get this way ?

Our light still shines, but it has been shaken.

Here we are Third week of Advent....The Way to Bethlehem has changed.... its not here we go again anymore. Or wait - in some ways it is

- the sadness of these Holy Innocents in Newtown and their grieving families is a wale heard before

- the shock and sigh of leaders, educators, first responders has been echoed before

- the shatteredness of lives which has ricocheted has been in view before

And that is why - this is purely and truly why - We need Advent, and Christmas, like never before. We all seek the same things we did when we started this journey to Bethlehelm, yet especially in this hour, the same goodness, the same strength and blessed comfort of the same God is something we need more than ever. They are needed today, tomorrow and over the days ahead in a fashion like we have never needed them before. Even more than they were at yesterday's dawn, in the midst of grief, anxiety, longing - there is something else - a desperation for that Light which can only come from above.

We need Advent, and Christmas, like never before. So we lite our Pink Candle - its symbolic of Joy and Hope. Let’s not miss Christmas Let’s not let Advent go by. Let’s not become halted by darkness, startled by the flash that occurs when a light goes out. Let’s lite the candles on the wreath, again and again and again, because we need it. Let’s string more lights on our tree this year then ever before, because we need it. Let’s permit our spirit even in darkness and sadness to be joy and  hope bound, because we need it - more than ever!

As my young friend’s mother finished her prayers and came to collect him in the midst of his questions about the candle going out, his final query was the most challenging. “Does it not become scary in darkness when all the lights are out in the church?” Pausing for a moment determining whether I should address his misunderstanding that I do not sleep in the back pew each night, I decided instead to say.

“Not all the lights go out." Pointing toward the red tabernacle candle I said “ that one is always on, because Jesus is always here.”

Today that is what we celebrate That is why we gather. That is what (who) we hope in. That His eternal, everlasting, never extinguishable Light is Here. It has not gone out - no act of evil can ever do that. May the Eucharist, our gathering, our prayer, our common strength, resolve and purpose - not only make a difference. May it also help us not miss the true light of Advent, and Christmas, We need like never before.

Advent - it will go - F.A.S.T.

Two weeks ago some 40 people from our parish set off “On the Way to Bethlehem”. Now before you think a secret trip to bring about world peace has been going on thru the parish - it was actually to a fantastic display in Milton. It was put together by the area Churches and was not only very well done, but it was a reminder of that first journey. Though it was a frigid evening, and some struggle along the way - that too was a testament to what it must have been like.

Each year, during the season of Advent, the Church sets off on a journey. We begin to prepare our hearts and our minds for the coming of the Christ-child, so that this time He will have a proper place to be born. We think we know the way to Bethlehem; we can find it on the map, it's not that far from Jerusalem, by today's standards; shouldn't be a problem we think to ourselves.

But the problem is that so much has changed since our last visit. A whole year has passed, a year that brought many changes in our lives, some of them good, some of them not so good, some of them heartbreaking and others maybe groundbreaking. The geographic map of life has changed, and even old familiar places and faces don't seem the same any more. So maybe we could use a little help in finding our way back to Bethlehem this year. That is, if you still want to go.

See the freedom of the Season of Advent is that we can decide if we still want to go to Bethlehem. Sure we want Christmas - who wouldn’t want the modern Christmas of today - glitter, gifts, glee, but Advent reminds us that as Disciples of the Lord the Bethlehem we are travelling toward is not always all Merry and Nice. Sure there will be moments of egg nog cheer. Yes there will be occasions of wrappings and lights. Totally the times when we will share joy will be there. But let’s not forget that in our travel, well it has to be about Him too! And if its going to be about Him - let me just say to you that Advent with its four short weeks will go F.A.S.T. and sure enough that is the way to Bethlehem - FAST

It has to be about Forgiveness. Rejoicing in the pardon and peace with only God can give, putting aside the resentment we feel, the anger we have, the hatred we sense toward others and even events since we last walked this way.

It has to be about Adoration. Rejoicing in the presence of God - taking time for prayer. Taking time to pray for an understanding of all that has happened since we were on this road a year ago.

It has to be about Surrender. Giving over the map to the Lord - letting Him set the pace, allowing Him to share the burden of the journey and provide not only the rest stops but also the thru ways.

It has to be about Tenderness. Walking with a heart that is willing to see the least, the lost, the lonely and give from our abundance - knowing that there is an old saying that is ever so true - if you want to receive a blessing - than be a blessing!

So come on, grab your Red Stocking, walk side by side with me along. We are off to Bethlehem - it won’t require a plane or a visa. It won’t require a time change or even luggage. But I promise you if you are true to it - it will go FAST

Let us make this way - Advent - the way to Bethlehem - and let’s Forgive, Adore Him, Surrender often and be Tender many times. I promise you - at the end of it all - when the angels call our name - it will be the best Manger you have ever seen !

Advent - Here We Go Again!

Here we go again !

If your honest that feeling, that sentiment, that statement has popped into your head. The month of December has arrived, the signs of the Season are around us, jingles are in the air and department store flyers are in our mailboxes. Here we go again ! It’s a natural feeling. We all fall victim to it. The hectic pace of the weeks to come, and all there is to do, make us say it. But alas, this is why we have Advent!

Advent, is our spiritual “getting ready” for Christmas period. We try to put into four weeks all the hoping, longing, preparing. In Advent, wait for Jesus:

...We wait for His grace and mercy, sure to come;

...We wait for Him to answer our prayers, sure He will, but unsure when, where, or how;

...We wait for reasons to explain suffering, struggle, and worries;

...We wait for Him to call us to be with Him for all eternity.

And, lest we forget, the Lord waits for us!

...Jesus waits for us to open up to His grace and mercy;

...Jesus waits for us to admit that, as a matter of fact, we do need a Savior!

...Jesus waits for us to admit that He is the answer to the questions our lives of searching pose.

...Jesus waits for our ultimate return to Him, for He “has gone to prepare a place for us.”

But waiting is a pain - we like action ! We prefer motion, movement. We get irritable if we have to wait in line, or for an appoinment, or even in traffic. So why do we wait ?

This week I went to the bank. I am sorry to report that the Bank was not giving out any free samples! I became perplexed, however, as I walked into the bank. I couldn’t figure it out. There was a Secuirty Guard there - just sitting - seemingly waiting and watching. Why I wondered - what are they looking for ? Who are they looking for. So, being the shy bashful person that I am - I asked him “What are you waiting for?” As the guard, whose name I discovered was Alex, stood in the freezing cold of last Friday night, he replied "I don’t know Father ! But when I see it - I will know!"

We are waiting.and in the busyness, in the “here we go again” moment, we don’t sometimes know for what. Yet in the waiting is the very arrival.Waiting makes us, alert, attentive, aware. It makes us  poised, prepared, present. It makes us focussed and above all it forces us to "savour for a saviour". 

Just like someone - “on guard” even during the frigid cold - duty bound, honour committed, we too as His Disciples - are invited to be waiting for that moment - that chance, that conversation, that casual encounter - where He will make Himself known, more clearly understood, more firmly focussed in our life ! The wait might make us say - here we go again. But in the wait is once again - that encounter with the Lord - parallelled by the Magi & Shepherds - that will help us see and be - His light!  

I sincerely hope that this Advent, you won’t mind the wait, even if at times you are not sure you know what you are waiting for - See Christ does:

He will use this wait to bless you - if you simply use the wait

He will use this wait to encourage you - if you simply don’t waste the wait

He will use this wait to bring you closer to Him - if you simply don’t worry about the wait

Just be determined this Advent to know that deep down inside, cradled in the soul, where no one but the One who counts can detect, is a moment for which God is waiting to be re-born in your life. We just have to wait to see it - embrace it and maybe even accept it. Advent can do that.

So here is your homework - for the next four weeks:

- when the traffic gets packed

- when the shopping line gets long

- when the picking up of your newspaper required chiracpractor care because of its thinkness

- when the extent of your patience is frilled

- when the desire to scream is real

Don’t say - "here we go again" - or worst - but rather - "Come, Lord Jesus!” - it will make the wait truly worth it !

Make Him King !

Occasionally, I like to go out and have a plate of nachos! You know a plate of nice chips with salsa, some chicken or beef - and then to keep my doctor happy - I make sure there is lettuce & tomatoes on it so it resembles healthy salad type stuff. I enjoy trying different places - a few locals watering holes and a couple not so local - but either way you meet interesting people along the way, and see interesting spots. One watering hole - had a sign near its entrance - we are the King of Quenching Your Thirst!

It made me pause and ponder a bit in between the salsa and jalapenos - - what do people thirst for? In Haiti - where we are trying to aid the Sisters of St Joseph in building a well - people thirst for simple water - something we take for granted. But our thirst is actually even greater than their thirst; we thirst for understanding, we thirst for relationships - meaningful ones, we thirst for direction - we thirst for ways to be heard, we thirst for sympathy - we thirst for justice and fairness. So which King will Quench our Thirst and where will our watering hole be ?

Today we celebrate the Solemnity of Christ the King and I would like to share with you why He should be the King of Quenching Your Thirst. Blessed John Paul II spoke early in his life as Pope of the call to “put out into the deep”. His was a convincing call to Mission and Evangelization. His was an invitation to see all within the world, our very lives - even the things we thirst for - to be found within the beauty and power of the Gospel. He told us though that this would be found, first and foremost, in one place - The Family.

The Family is the foundational place of spiritual formation. It is the place of apprenticeship - training in holiness - How ?

1. Loving God First

The family must be the place where God is honoured. Our call as we thirst is to love God - above all things - and to Honour Him and His Day. This can be difficult in today’s society because so many things pull families in various directions. But what happens when you are pulled in various directions is that eventually you are pulled apart. Something - someone - must be your unifying centre - it must be God

Do you thirst for harmony in your marriage ? Do you thirst for serenity in your family ?

Don’t put fleeting things first - Love God First - make Him King !

2. Service

The family must be the place where service is seen. One of the things in our parish family we seek to be good at - always trying for better - is to serve one another:

• Red Stocking Campaign
• Neighbourhood Ministry and Lend A Hand Appeal
• Haiti Mission Work (Coins for Change, Milk Bag Mats, Catholic Cafe)
• Service Saturdays/Green Bag Saturday
• Food Drives
• Blanket Brigade and Ready Day One Back Packs
• Roses for Life Appeal and Baby Shower for Michael House
• 40 Days for Life
• Commitment to Orphanage in Bethlehem

In our world which creates illusive images of happiness to tempt us, cars, mansions, fine clothes, latest toys - tempt us to become someone other than ourselves. Service to others makes us real, shows if we are real. The real us comes out when we give of our real ourselves to another in need.  Who we really are comes out when we lend a hand.

Do you thirst for something that will fill the emptiness you feel some days?

Do you thirst for something that will satisfy the hole you feel in your life for meaning and purpose?

Don’t Use Visa First - Serve Another and God First - make Him King !

3. Forgiveness

The family must be the place where forgiveness is taught. In our weakness we hurt one another - we fail to be there for a friend, we fail to support a sibling, we fail to sustain a spouse in their need. We let down, get down on, or rip down another, and when it is someone we love - it hurts all the more!  Yet when the hurt is there so is the temptation toward revenge, resentment, retribution, and these seek to be King in our life - but the only thing they do is make us dry. Dry and thirsty - for a peace found only in Forgiveness

Do you thirst for a restoration in a relationship?

Do you thirst for a refreshment in conversation with spouse, sibling, significant friend ?

Don’t get back first - Seek Forgiveness from Another and God First - make Him King !

Let me conclude with this. Cardinal Timothy Dolan, the Archbishop of New York spoke recently about the celebration of Thanksgiving in the United States. He remarked that it, along with other major celebrations  — are in jeopardy. He writes in a recent column for his Archdiocesan Newspaper; "The stores, we hear, will open on Thanksgiving. Isn’t that a sign of progress and liberation? Sorry, but no — it’s a sign of a further descent into a highly privatized, impersonal, keep-people-at-a-distance culture, one that values having stuff and doing things over just being with people whom we love, cherish and appreciate."

As you make your priorities this week - Who is your King? Is their an idol which takes over your priorities making the watering hole from which your thirst is quenched different than the life giving water found in being an apprentice of Christ and His ways?

Will you allow a little forgivness, a slight bit of service and just a touch of loving God first into the picture of your week ? Your day? Makes these beacons for time and as a result - Make Him King.

BUSY! B-U-S-Y

There is a terrible four letter word in our society. People use it all the time and they don’t know its effects on others. People have gotten into the habit of saying it and don’t even know it sometimes. People use it with a frequency in fact that has made it almost acceptable. I am speaking about the word - BUSY! B-U-S-Y

Ever notice how much we use it:

 I am too busy, life is too busy,

 Don’t have time for that its busy season,

 Are you kidding, can’t get another thing into the schedule I am busy,

 No can’t get involved, I am busy

 Don’t have time to read that story - too busy

 Nope I can’t take that call, sorta busy

 No, No....don’t have time to chat - I am on the run - really busy!

Now when it happens at work or with our social life - that is one thing, but when it enters our family life or our spiritual life - now that is another. Busyness and hectic pace is the greatest trial to relationships, friendship, family life and even spirituality. To make time, to respond in time, to give time, to surrender time is the toughest thing these days - it’s the plaque of the 21st century!

In the Readings from God’s Word today we hear the importantce of discerning our time: giving it or surrendering it:

In the First Reading (1King 17:10-16) we are introduced to Elijah, a Prophet of the Lord who is on a journey. He is faced with hunger and approaches a poor widow seeking something to eat. Now imagine if the Widow said she was too busy and did not share the morsels of Bread she had - in that busyness she would have missed the moment when the Lord decided He could do an amazing thing and fed her and her household with that small morsel for many days. God did because she didn't claim to be busy.

In the 2nd Reading Gospel - Letter the Hebrews - (9:24-28), imagine if the receivers of the message had been too busy to receive it. They would have missed that moment to remember all of who Christ is and what Christ had done in their life and that of the community. They heard the good news, were encouraged in their path because they did not claim to be busy.

In the Gospel (Mark 12:38-44) - the poor Widow - imagine if she had not made time to come to the Temple (Church) and given what she could - surrendered her resources - she would not of become a great witness to others, and would not have met Jesus! Both became possible because she did not claim to be busy.

This does not mean they were not busy, it just means they did not allow their busyness to stop them from responding. Busyness is not only plaque - it’can be a bit of an excuse too! Yes we are all busy, no doubt, but we must discern in the busyness not only our priorities, but also God’s priorities for us. For time is like the stewardship of money - we can throw it all around and accomplish nothing with, or we can invest it wisely in the things that will bear much fruit - especially in eternal life.

Are we using our time to the Glory of God or are we just throwing it around? When being inviting by the Lord to give our time to Him through our friends, in our faith, along with our family - do we just - well - say we are busy? Busy will always be around us - It has been that way for generations!

There was once a group of people who had been friends at University who decided to get together several years after graduation:

-they were 30 years old and so they thought they would get together for dinner - they agreed to go to this restaurant “The Glowing Amber” - the waiters and waitresses were young and good looking and it had great music.

- when they turned 45 years old they decided to get together again, they agreed to go this restaurant “The Glowing Amber” - they heard it had great food and they could bring their kids.

- when they turned 60 years old they decided to get together they agreed to this restaurant “The Glowing Amber” - they could eat in peace and quiet with out any loud music

- when they turned 75 years old they decided to get together they agreed to meet at this restaurant “The Glowing Amber” - it was physically accessible and had an elevator, not to mention an early bird special.

- when they turned 90 years old they decided to get together they agreed to gather at this restaurant “ The Glowing Amber” - after all they had never eaten there before!

Time changes things, generations more on, and yet some things stay the same. Being busy will always be there - like a Glowing Amber, but the opportunity to serve, to say, to show for the glory of God may not be or might even be forgotten if we are not careful! That moment to read to your child, that occasion to have a coffee with a friend in need, that moment to turn to God and honour Him for all He does in our lives - these will pass as quickly as the years.

Are you using your time to the glory of self or the glory of God?

Are you using your time to build up ego or build up God’s Kingdom?

Are you investing in a sport more than a soul?

Are you serving Career before Child? Boss before family?

Are you putting dream ahead of God’s desire for you?

This week - try not to say I am busy - but respond to where the Lord guides, how the Lord asks, discern each request carefully - don't brush them off. That one invite from a friend, faith community or family member might well be the manner the Lord uses to give great blessing. Give all you have - even the little morsels of time to Him - and let Him establish a feast for you and your household that will last for days and maybe even invest in eternity !

In the Midst of the Storm There is Always Room

Once or twice in our experience of this life here on earth something happens which shapes the course of our lives. Many on the East Coast have experienced such an event. Consider for a moment what has been set in motion from Sandy:

● 13 foot surge of seawater. 3 feet above the 200 year old record and 90 mph winds

● The battery tunnel connecting Manhattan and Brooklyn flooded.

● 74 foot crane in the middle of Manhattan tittering over the city

● 8.2 million in 7 states from the Carolina’s to Ohio without power

● a close call at 2 nuclear plants

● 100 homes destroyed first by flood and then by fire in Queens (historic breezy Point)

● The West Virginia Blizzard as a result of the storm.

● ships and trees, and roads, and homes gone.

● dozens of people lost their lives

That's the big picture and it says nothing of the tens of thousands of people whose lives are changed in significant ways. Try to calculate the human toll emotionally and spiritually and you cannot. Only God can weigh such matters. But we try in feeble ways to understand. Events like Sandy raise fundamental questions.

 Why is there so much chaos?

 Why does nature so overwhelm us and destroy our lives.

 Why do innocent people suffer?

Questions always gets asked, don’t they: Where was God on September 11, 2001? Where was God when 280,000 perished in the Asian Tsunami? Where was God this week? I am struck by how universal these questions are. They are as old as Job and are asked by the wisest people among us. For years mankind has sought the answer to suffering. And we are still searching. These monstrous works beckon the question Who’s in control here? Nature? Man? God?

At the core of events which lead to the Gospel of today were the same queries (Mark 12:28-34). The Disciples of Jesus were seeing so much change in their time and era, so much turmoil, hurt, anger, suppression they too wanted to get down to the core of it all. There were so many questions in fact that the scribes and the pharisees were arguing with one another over the answers. So they come to Jesus - they want to get down to the core of it all - what is the greatest commandment? - what is the core, what is the essence, what is it all about - help us understand in the midst of the storm. Jesus reply - Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your mind, with all your soul, with all your strength and love your neighbour as yourself.

Here is the mastery of storms - they get us back to the core, the truth! When the storm - call it Sandy or just call it Life at times - turns everything upside down, causes hundred of mile strong drafts, and tsunami type waves - at the end - what gets us thru it - what gets us past it, what lets us keep moving on - well - is our Core Principles, our Central Character, our Concrete Reasons for Being Who we are!

Jesus reminds us, in His response to the scribes and pharisees - that we must remember what we are about - Love of God and Love of Neighbour and that the mission we are on is not only to Live the Gospel - but Give the Gospel - to proclaim and be active in sharing the Good News.

Let me finish with this:

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes." The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your life of faith, family, your children, your health, your friends--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a little bit more."

Let us -even in the storms - get back to the core, the truth!- there is always room for Love of God and Neighbour.