Saturday, December 24, 2011

Christmas Message


There is a word ever dear to our hearts, but dearer still at Christmas - Home. Like the old saying; “there is no place like home”. Home has charm, it has character, even at times we have a childlike affection for it. Our Home need not be a mansion, maybe it is even to some less than a shack, but as long as it home for us - we are there cradled in its comfort and care.

Christmas is a time when our memories and thoughts gather around home. Amid the chaos we find a quiet moment and ponder its gift. We also tenderly recall those whom distance or death momentarily separate from all being together at home; we hear their voices echo the hallway, their scent fills the air and their presence seems in its absence to seemingly touch us – we remember them all at Christmas.

This Christmas many will come Home – to our Home – St Mary’s Church. During Christmas Mass we may cast a wistful glance at one another. Our decorations may proclaim anew that the Saviour has come, our worship may well up in each of us a joy and devotion, our music and message may cause a cheery reminder of when the heavenly chorus first announced the glad tiding of peace on earth among everyone of good will. We will say; it is good to be Home.

As we come together this Christmas – as we come Home – let us pray for one another that as we are brought together in one place for this one time, we may remember the one reason, the one person, that has made this togetherness possible. May the Child of Bethlehem be born again within each of us and fill your heart and soul with peace and love. Welcome Home!

May Our Lady of the Visitation continue to be our inspiration, model and guide.

Together in the Lord’s Service
Father F. Freitas
Pastor

Christmas Mass Schedule

Christmas Eve – December 24, 2011
5:00p.m. – Mass with Pageant and Children’s Choir
7:00p.m. – Family Mass
Midnight – Solemn Mass of Christmas
(Carols begin at 11:30p.m. and Incense will be used)

Christmas Day – December 25, 2011
10:00a.m. – Solemn Mass of Christmas Day

A reminder that additional seating for 300 persons will be provide at all Masses in the Parish Centre and additional parking at the Johnson Centre has been arranged.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Fourth Sunday of Advent - Its almost here - the Adventure !

Advent means coming. It is also the first part of the word Adventure. This year’s Advent scriptures mix many strong images and emotions. We hear the challenge to Watch! Be Alert, Make Straight, and Await! But we are also assured by The Lord is With You, and We are the Clay and God is the Potter’s Hands, and Give Comfort to my People and We Rest in the Shepherding Arms of Jesus. Ultimately these images lead us to proclaim with Mary that Nothing is Impossible for God. The combination of these feelings and happenings are indeed an adventure of faith.

Our possibilities with God are most powerfully proclaimed and cele-brated in the Feast of Nativity when the Child King is given to us by a God who knows the possibilities in the divine human enterprise. When all humanity is raised up by the presence of our God in an innocent baby, our world is made holy.

As we come to the conclusion of Advent and celebrate in Christmas let us embrace the possibilities of our partnership with God and take those possibilities out to an eager world that awaits ongoing new life.

May the Adventure of this beautiful time of year be a magical one for you and your loved ones. Please share some of that magic with us here at St Mary of the Visitation Parish on Christmas.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Third Sunday of Advent - Clutter, Clutter, Clutter

Having guests enter our homes for the holidays requires preparation—cleaning, decorating, and shopping. And most of us do this willingly and eagerly during the holidays in order to spend time with family and friends.

But how often do we spend time preparing our hearts for the holidays? The busyness of the season can all too easily crowd Jesus right out of Christmas. Most people would never forget one of their children’s birthdays, but the birth of the Savior of the world can get lost in the glitter and glamour of Christmas parties, presents, and activities.

Is Jesus the center of your holiday? Examine your heart this Christmas season. Maybe it’s time to do a thorough cleaning and prepare a place for Jesus to come and stay. The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a great way to get rid of clutter, it helps things become clear and clean so that we can celebrate the great Feast of the Nativity of Our Lord not only in peace - but clutter free. Our Parish Reconciliation Service is Thursday, December 15th at 7:00pm - five visitng priests will be present - great way to get ride of the clutter !

In the same manner in which we clean and prepare our homes in the anticipation of welcomed guests and family members this Christmas season, let us also prepare our hearts in anticipation of the Lord's coming. Christ, our most honored and eagerly anticipated guest, desires to meet with us in a heart prepared for His arrival. So eager is He to meet with us that He offers to help us with our spiritual housecleaning, working with us; creating a resting place for Himself within our hearts.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Second Sunday of Advent - An Advent Pause


We are now in the second week of the journey of Advent. Advent is a tradition that is intended to be a spiritual journey, Advent is a time to reflect on Scripture and slow down to appreciate not only Jesus’ birth but also His gift of salvation through His death and resurrection. The Christmas story is not just something celebrated in December, but it is something meant to be lived out every day as we eagerly await His glorious return.

Each day of Advent, set aside time to slow down and remember the reason we celebrate. You will be engaging in Scripture, meditating on its truth, and experiencing God in new ways. It may seem counter cultural to slow down during what is known as one of the busiest times of the year. But that is exactly what Advent encourages you to do. Be counter cultural—you won’t regret it.

Candles on our Advent Wreath are lit as reminder of what the Gospel of John speaks of Christ as the true light coming into the world. Through the tradition of Advent we stand together with Christians around the world, proclaiming this truth prophesied many years ago. Christ is coming. Christ is always coming, always entering a broken world, a shattered family, a wounded heart. Remember and claim this truth by lighting a candle when you pray—as a visual reminder of the light of the world who came to earth as a baby to show His love for you.

During Advent I hope that you are following my Advent Devotional - Padre's Pause - which is a daily meditation to help us slow down a bit; it is on my Twitter page @PadreFreitas. I hope this Advent we can all slow down a little.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

First Sunday of Advent


Grant your faithful, we pray, almighty God,
the resolve to run forth to meet your Christ
with righteous deeds at his coming,
so that, gathered at his right hand,
they may be worthy to possess the heavenly kingdom.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.


With these words we began the Season of Advent, a four week period of expectation, hope and anticipation. A time in which each of us is called to the 'joyful hope of the expectation of the coming of the Son of God". These four weeks, marked by the presence of the wreath and candles, recall for us a period of preparation for the Feast of the Nativity of the Lord. But it is also a time of waiting.

Is there anything more difficult or trying in our lives than waiting ? We are not acustomed to waiting. We have instant messaging. Waiting is uncomfortable; but Advent reminds us that it is what we do with the wait that matters. What will you do with the wait?

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Feast of Christ the King - Catholic Cafe...Micheal Coren... and Haiti


If you haven't heard - Michael Coren is coming to St Mary's Parish. It will be part of our on going Tuesday Night Together series. He will be speaking on "Growing in Clarity of Faith" on December 6, 2011 - After the 7:00p.m. Mass. Michael is a popular and articulate contemporary figure known for his clarity of thought and presentation. Michael Coren will speak on “Growing in Clarity of Faith" and also on the life of C.S. Lewis. A free will offering in support of our Outreach Fund for Haiti will take place. You will not want to miss this wonderful evening of growing in knowing His Name.

In 2010 the eyes of the world were focused upon the destruction that a 7.0 scale earthquake caused in the island nation of Haiti, and especially its hard-hit capital, Port-au-Prince. In many areas nothing was left but widespread devastation. During 2010-2011, as a parish family, we aided, thru the Sisters of St Joseph of Hamilton Diocese. Our own parish was able to send during 2010 a total of $ 23,023.23 in donations to help with direct aid, and also sent 2,348 Haiti Health Kits to the area which were used in Port-au-Prince University Hospital and The Hospital of Peace, Delmas where the Sisters of St Joseph of Hamilton Diocese have for over twenty years been directly involved in the lives of the Haitian people.

Our goal is to raise $5,000 during 2011 to provide direct emergency medical assistance and relief. Through individually designated parishioner donations and the proceeds of our Catholic Café since September we have raised almost 50% of our goal. The proceeds of our Tuesday Night Together with Michael Coren will add to this amount. During our Catholic Café in December a representative from St Joseph International Outreach will be present to answer questions about the efforts we are partnering with in Haiti.

Come Support Our Partnership with the Sisters of St Joseph in Haiti By attending the Café Being Held At All Masses on December 10/11 - Special Draws and Opportunities to Help will Also be A Part of This Month’s Café.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Neighbourhood Minstry - Put Your Hand There !

This year as a Family of Faith we are dedicated to HIS NAME. We desire to know HIS name, to grow in knowing Our Name and to come closer as a parish family by getting to know one another's name. One gem which has grown out of this dedication has been our Neighbourhood Ministry.

When Sadness Strikes or a new member arrives- a family is there - and that is the goal of the Neighbour Ministry. We seek to be a network of names of parishioners that would be willing to provide a kind card, a warm dish, a helping handy hand, a friendly voice, a compassionate ear to welcome (or comfort) a fellow member of our Family of Faith.

This weekend we held our major 'recruitment weekend ' for this ministry. My hope has been to attract 25 new families to be a part of the ministry, I am so happy to say that we had 72 families say - put my hand there - I want to help ! Wow! Amazing! Epic! To all those who have signed up - THANK YOU! Within the next two weeks we will be sending you some information packages on how this ministry will develop, right now we are a little overwhelmed with the response (a good thing). There is still time to sign up - just call our parish office and let us know you are interested.

We have a great Family of Faith - you glorify HIS Name !

May Our Lady of the Visitation continue to be our help and guide.

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Lest We Forget


In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Service Saturday


This past weekend our parish participated in our 4th Service Saturday weekend. This activity was begun during our 150th anniversary Year (2007) and is a wonderful opportunity for us to reach out into the community. The centre piece of Service Saturday is the opportunity to prepare and serve a meal to over 113 residents at the Bridges Shelter. In fact because of our generosity a meal was prepared for Saturday and Sunday! Another aspect is our Blanket Brigade. We were able to collect over 150 blankets for the Out of the Cold Program. I am told that it was 62 new blankets, 62 gentle used blankets from parishioners and then 24 blankets donated by our Kids Klub. I am pleased to share some pictures below.

Your generosity in helping the less fortunate is a wonderful sign of the goodness within this Family of Faith. Our next outreach project will be our annual Red Stocking Campaign - it is set to begin November 26th - Watch for details!






Sunday, October 23, 2011

New Roman Missal - Gesutres

If you talk to someone who was a teenager in the 60's they can remember the exact place they were when John F Kennedy was shot.

If you talk to someone who was a teenager in the early 2000's they can remember the exact place they were when September 11th occurred.

If you talk to someone who is a teenager today they can remember the exact place they were then they heard Steve Jobbs had died.

There are certain - let us call them - Iconic Moments - in history and certain Iconic people.

What makes them iconic is not only their contributions, not only their accomplishments, not only their contributions to the fabric of society - but also - the gestures which they make that allows them to become known - seen - heard - recongnized - noticed.

Gestures are so important !They are the billboards of who we are and what we do. In the celebration of Mass we raise our hearts, minds and voices to God, but we are creatures composed of body as well as spirit and so our prayer is not confined to our minds, hearts and voices, but is expressed by our bodies as well.

When our bodies participate in our prayer we pray with our whole person,this engagement of our entire being in prayer helps us to pray with greater attention.

During Mass we assume different postures: standing, kneeling, sitting, and we are also invited to make a variety of gestures. These postures and gestures are not merely ceremonial. They have profound meaning, and when done with understanding, can enhance our personal participation in Mass.

Standing is a sign of respect and honor, so we stand as the priest who represents Christ enters and leaves the assembly.

When we stand for prayer we assume our full stature before God, not in pride, but in humble gratitude for the marvellous things God has done in creating and redeeming each one of us.

We stand for the Gospel, the pinnacle of revelation, the words and deeds of the Lord

Kneeling signified homage to the Lord, and more recently this posture has come to signify adoration. The Bishops have chosen the posture of kneeling for the entire Eucharistic Prayer.

Sitting is the posture of listening and meditation, so the congregation sits for the pre-Gospel readings and may also sit for the period of meditation following Communion.

Gestures too involve our bodies in prayer.

The most familiar of these is the Sign of the Cross with which we begin Mass and with which, in the form of a blessing, the Mass concludes. It was by his death on the cross that Christ redeemed humankind, we trace the sign of the cross on our foreheads, lips and hearts at the beginning of the Gospel.

But there are other gestures that intensify our prayer at Mass.

During the Confiteor the action of striking our breasts at the words through my own fault can strengthen my awareness that my sin is my fault.

In the Creed we are invited to bow at the words which commemorate the Incarnation: by the power of the Holy Spirit he was born of the Virgin Mary and became man. This gesture signifies our profound respect and gratitude to Christ who, through God, did not hesitate to come among us as a human being, sharing our human condition in order to save us from sin and restore us to friendship with God.

The Our Father is followed by the Exchange of Peace, the gesture which we express through a prayerful greeting of peace, that we are at peace, not enmity, with others. This exchange is symbolic. The persons near me with whom I share the peace signify for me - the peace of the Lord be with you always - its not a time of conversation or catching up

The new General Instruction, we are asked to make a sign of reverence, before receiving Communion standing. The bishops of this country have determined that the sign which we will give before Communion is to be a bow, a gesture through which we express our reverence and give honor to Christ who comes to us as our spiritual food.

In addition to serving as a vehicle for the prayer of beings composed of body and spirit, the postures and gestures in which we engage at Mass have another very important function.

The Church sees in these common postures and gestures both a symbol of the unity of those who have come together to worship and a means of fostering that unity.

We are not free to change these postures to suit our own individual piety, for the Church makes it clear that our unity of posture and gesture is an expression of our participation in the one Body formed by the baptized with Christ, our head

When we stand, kneel, sit, bow and sign ourselves in common action, we have given ambiguous witness that we are indeed the Body of Christ, united in heart, mind and spirit.

I think the church is at an Iconic Moment - the Liturgical Changes - the opportunity to Pray with New Words - is a wonderful chance for us to reflect upon not only what we say - but what we do -- during it all May Our Lady of the Visitation be our inspiration, model and guide.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

New Roman Missal - Words

We are standing at a unique moment in the Life of the Church. On the First Sunday of Advent a new translation of the Mass, which represents the most significant liturgical development for English-speaking Catholics since Vatican II, will take place. For nearly forty years, Catholics have become quite familiar with the English translation of the Mass. Many of us have heard these words since childhood and know them by heart, simply out of routine. So ingrained in us are these responses that if someone were to say, "The Lord be with you," many of us would instinctively respond, "And also with you."

But what do these words mean? Sunday after Sunday we recite these prayers and perform certain rituals. But what is the meaning of all we say and do in the Mass? The revised translation, which take effect in all English Speaking Roman Catholic Churches, provides a unique occasion for Catholics to reflect on the meaning of the Mass.

We will need to learn new responses and new musical settings. It is my hope that this period of preparation and transition will not be merely mechanical-- simply about training people to say new responses-- but catechetical and spiritual. As we are taken out of our routine, we have an unique opportunity to ponder anew what we say and do in the Mass and rediscover the splendor of the liturgy, so that we might grow deeper in our communion with Jesus every time we go to Mass.

As we prepare to welcome the revised English translation of the Mass, we can be assured that the Eucharist we celebrate will stand in continuity with that first Eucharist instituted by Christ-- and that the new translation is intended to help enhance our worship of God and deepen our participation in the sacred mysteries of the liturgy.

This Sunday our parish has published a special edition of our Parish Newsletter, (a copy can be found on our parish website - www.stmaryhespeler.ca - under the Parish News section - "New Roman Missal". It seeks to explain why the new translation of the Mass is being issued and how it will affect the various parts of the Mass. It will also consider the meaning of some of the more noticeable changes and how they will assist our worship.

In addition, the final page outlines special evenings and resources which are upcoming which will help us as we seek to prepare. Please mark these down, plan on attending and plan on preparing.

It is my prayer that this newsletter will help you develop not only a greater awareness of the upcoming changes in the translation of the Mass, but also a deeper appreciation for the Liturgy itself and a deeper love for Jesus in the Eucharist.

May Our Lady of the Visitation be our inspiration, model and guide.

Together in the Lord's Service

Father F. Freitas
Pastor

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving

Let Us Give Thanks to The Lord


We thank thee, Lord,
For fields of grain
Gold and ripe from summer’s rain,
For hillsides bright
With scarlet trees
That rustle in the autumn breeze,
For friends so dear,
For those we love,
For all things sent
from heaven above...
We thank thee,
Lord.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

The Way of the Cross Leads Home

For the journey of faith there's only one road you must follow. You may encounter detours, or face deep valleys, often being challenged by a difficult climbing also. Still, it's just one way; there is none other, and there's no turning back!

Such adventure can be satisfying in spite of inevitable difficulties along the way. Like any other trip, this one will lead to the destination only to the extent you periodically check the map, both to know what is ahead as well as to determine how to get there.

Christ has promised all His followers to be with them always, never leaving nor forsaking them at any point. What better company and guide could one ever ask for?

The trouble is that many pilgrims would rather do their own thing along the way, often preferring side trips into dangerous roads which may lead nowhere, or which may lead to disaster. Such distractions will simply retard one's progress, thus depriving the traveler from the full enjoyment and total satisfaction which are part of the journey.

However, if you are guided by Christ, don't expect His presence by your side if and when you deviate from His ways and disregard the directives He has already provided concerning this journey. The greatest distresses Christians will ever experience in this life, often come when they momentarily detach themselves from the guide, giving heed to allurements which would inevitably hinder their individual progress. Or they may become prematurely discouraged by unexpected barriers and other inevitable difficulties along the way.

Such journey is no different from the one already experienced by Christ, the Savior; it is the via crucis - the way of the cross. And such is the road leading to eternal life, the way that takes one home!

Sunday, September 25, 2011

The Season of “In Between”

The geese are flying. The leaves are changing. The nights are cooler. The daylight is a little less. Yes, in deed, Fall is here. Fall is a beautiful season, but kind of “in-between”. In between the glories of summer and the gusts of winter. During Fall we recall the sunny, hazy, lazy days of summer. A lighter load, slower pace, smaller scope of things to do. We marvel at the beautiful flower beds, crisp water scenes, longer days and warmer nights. Then, in the in between, we also think about winter. For those into sports - skies and ski dos come out. Those not into these begin to get their reading list ready and their “trip down south” plans set. Fall really is in between.

What do you do with the “in between’s” ? Those in between times in your spiritual life I mean. Those times in between the glorious “summers” and the gloomy “winters” that come into all our lives. Those seasons when everything is a blessing and those moments when life is a burden.

One things I like about Fall is the time to ponder, pray and prepare that the “in between” affords. To ponder the glories that God has put into my life (family, friends, faith). To pray over the glooms that gust through my life (sadness, sickness, struggle). Praying for the strength in the “in between” to appreciate the one and get through the other. Jesus did the same. Scripture tells us that several times in His ministry He “withdrew to a place by Himself”. He wanted an “in between” moment. It is ok for us to want one too. Christ took the inbetween as a moment to reflect upon the Father’s will, to ensure that His mission was on track and that his priorities were in balance. He also took the time to pray for those who were on the journey with Him. What a great use of the “in between”.

So enjoy the Fall. It is in between. Take it in. Ponder, Prepare, Pray. Bask in those summer glories. Batten down for those winter glooms. Rejoice - a new season is here !

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Moving Ahead With Confidence

For the child of God, moving ahead is the only direction Scripture outlines for us to go. While some may choose to maintain the status quo, to go around in circles, or event to want to turn back to the security of what was - moving ahead with confidence is the only life giving alternative.

It has been several years now, since I adopted as a motto for myself, words once entered into the diary of the legendary Dr. David Livingstone. He was the 19th century Scotsman who devoted the best years of his life to crisscrossing the vast continent of Africa as a Christian missionary doctor, preacher, and explorer. The entry he made into his Journals affirms: “I am prepared to go anywhere, as long as it is forward!”

Moving forward is not always easy. There will be potential distractions; the road will bend; obstacles may appear along the way; other adverse circumstances may be faced as well. Yet, nothing should keep our eyes from the ultimate goal; nothing should ever allow discouragement to paralyse us in the process. Moving ahead is the only way to go!

A follower of Jesus truly can move ahead with confidence in any enterprise, maintaining an uplifted head no matter what, and with full assurance of ultimate victory, because of the promises of God and because of the character of God. This character of God is His unfailing goodness toward us. His promise is that God will go with us where He leads us!

As we continue to move forward in life - let us never look back, go around in circles or even just maintain the status quo - rather let us recheck our individual personal histories and be reminded of His faithfulness in years past, being also reassured of what He can do for us now, since Jesus
Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

Indeed, let us trust Him more completely for what He can and will do on behalf of His
children as they encounter new challenges. His promises never fail and He remains faithful to the end, for He loves us with an everlasting love. Our part is simply to keep moving forward with confidence !

Sunday, September 11, 2011

September 11th - a Time to Remember Hereos

Recently a newspaper ran a series of articles on Hereos in light of the anniversary of September 11th.
- the Hereos that are being featured are individuals who have come to light as a result of the tragedies on September 11th in New York, Washington and Pennsilvania.
- the Hereos have been Fire Fighters who saved hundred of lives
- the Hereos have been Parents who sheltered their children
- the Hereos have been regular citizens who were in the area & came to the aid of others
- the Hereos were the thousands who donated blood, sent blankets, and even a child who collected Teddy Bears at his school to send to the children who lost a parent.

This special series has shown many tremendous acts of caring, concern, and embracing of the grieving and injured.
The incomprehensible inhumanity of Sept. 11th has resulted in such goodness within the human spirit.

All of the articles stressed one thing - the Call to Serve:
- that here, within the human family a need arose and people responded to the Call to Serve.
- that here, within the human family, people searched for ways to reach out with a God-given love.
- that here, within the human family, people yearned for a way to give sense to a senseless time.

One of the articles, it was the first one, which featured this in a special way, was an article which featured the life of a priest - Father Michael Judge.
- Father Mike was one of the Chaplains of the NY Fire Department.
- his body was among the first to be taken from the reckage of New York
- he was killed as debris fell upon him as he administered the Sacrament of the Sick to a dying Firefighter.

His article spoke of one who was generous, self giving, aware of his God and touched by the love of God in his own life.

These characteristics of being:
- generous, self giving, aware of his God and touched by the love of God in ones own life

these are the characteristics which Amos is trying to get across to his people -in our 1st Reading

Yet Jesus, with the words of Amos firmly in the back of His mind, makes another very relevant point for us today in our Gospel with the story of Lazerus
- He seems to remind his people that we don’t need to let tragedy bring out service in us - but that each of us is called to that Service every day !

We call that - Living the Eucharist

Living the Eucharist is serious business;

▸ We are called to be of Service to one another:
that call to being generous, self giving, aware of his God and touched by the love of God in ones own life

▸ We are called to open the doors of our minds and hearts to those who live the sores of want and loss.

▸ We are called to be Hereos everyday - maybe not the type of Hereos that are featured in articles and series in the Toronto Star
- but Hereos never the less in our homes, workplaces, classrooms and parish

Hereos who live each day tremendous stories of courage
Hereos who serve each day with encouraging stories of faith
Hereos who commit themselves to inspiring stories of God’s grace at work

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Back to School

I offer my prayerful best wishes to all who are resuming school this week, especially those who are doing so for the first time at new schools, colleges and universities.

Blessed are you, Lord God,
creator of body and mind and heart;
you have sent the Spirit of wisdom and knowledge
to guide your people in all their ways.

At the beginning of this new school year,
we implore you to bless the students and staff of our
Parish Schools of Our Lady Fatima, St. Elizabeth and
St. Benedict; may we together grow in faith, hope & love.
Bless our young adults who are off to College and University; may they learn how to follow
your Son Jesus in Truth.
Expand the horizons of all our minds,
that we may grow in wisdom,
understanding and knowledge.
Deepen our commitment to seek your ways;
and enliven our faith to reach out to those in need.
Glory and praise to you, Lord God,
in the Church and in Christ Jesus forever and ever.
Amen.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

The Start of Summer

MY SUMMER BLESSING

Walk along beside me, Jesus,
as I begin the months of Summer.

As I work, play, enjoy family time and friendships,
may I hear your voice within me, guiding me toward
all that is right and good.
Give me faith in your presence, knowing that you
walk beside me in everything I do.

Gracious and loving Jesus,
thank you for the gift of Summer.

May the warmth of its sun and the beauty of its light
remind me daily of your love for me. Amen.

Friday, July 1, 2011


Prayer for Canada
Loving Father,
Bless our country, its people and its leaders.
Make our homeland one of peace and security.
Instill in us, a sense of charity toward the less fortunate and a respect for life.
Help us to grow closer to you as a nation.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen.

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Beatitudes of Compassion

Beatitudes of Compassion

Blessed are those who care and who are not afraid to show it – they will let people know they are loved.

Blessed are those who are gentle and patient – they will help people to grow as the sun helps the buds to open and blossom.

Blessed are those who have the ability to listen – they will lighten many a burden.

Blessed are those who know how and when to let go – they will have the joy of seeing people find themselves.

Blessed are those who, when nothing can be done or said, do not walk away, but remain to provide a comforting and supportive presence – they will help the sufferer to bear the unbearable.

Blessed are those who recognize their own need to receive, and who receive with graciousness – they will be able to give all the better.

Blessed are those who give without hope of return – they will give people an experience of God.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Father's Day and the Holy Trinity

Today we ask God‘s blessing upon our fathers, both
living and deceased. ―Loving God, bless our fathers,
both living and deceased. Send your Holy Spirit to
strengthen them in their faith, to inspire them in your
love, and to celebrate your life and love with their
children and grandchildren.‖

It is also Trinity Sunday. Today we reflect upon a great mystery of our faith;
God is one in nature and essence and yet three
distinct divine persons, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
Even though we cannot adequately understand this mystery
of the Holy Trinity, we can still live it each day. As people
of faith, whenever we celebrate love, family, friendship and
community we live the mystery of the Holy Trinity. When
we experience these relationships we develop a deeper
understanding of God as Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

May the Holy Trinity bless us all, May the Holy Trinity especially bless all Fathers' living and deceased, today.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Feast of Pentecost

PENTECOST PRAYER
Come, Holy Spirit,
once more fill my heart
with the fire and power of your gifts.


Come, Holy Spirit,
fill up wisdom's lamp,
come enlighten my mind and my will.


Come, Holy Spirit,
light the way: help me see and embrace
all that God has revealed.


Come, Holy Spirit:
with knowledge of truth,
brand my mind and my heart with God's Word.


Come, Holy Spirit,
my beacon of counsel
for judgments both prudent and pure.


Come, Holy Spirit
and kindle my courage
to do what is right, what is just.


Come, Holy Spirit
and stoke my desire
to humble myself before God.


Come, Holy Spirit,
light the flame of your presence
and draw me to reverence and prayer.


Come, Holy Spirit,
fill my heart with your gifts
and my soul with the breath of your peace.


Come, Holy Spirit,
to the Father's love draw me
through my, Savior, my Lord Jesus Christ.
Amen.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

3rd Edition of the Roman Missal

On the First Sunday of Advent (November 27th) the English translation of the 3rd Edition of the Roman Missal will be implemented across the English-speaking world. We will notice that the English translation is more faithful to the original Latin text than the current words we use during the celebration of Mass. The work of translating and implementing this new translation has taken many years to complete. Some of the responses of the people will change, as will many of the sung parts of the Mass. The Eucharistic Prayers will also sound different to us in the beginning. One of the very positive aspects of this new translation is a recovery of the beautiful references to Scripture in the celebration of Mass. Many of our choir members have already participated in Diocesan workshops to help them learn the new musical setting for the Mass. This particular musical setting was written by a priest of the Archdiocese of Winnipeg. It will be used across the Diocese in parishes and other Catholic institutions for the next couple of years. In order to help our parishioners prepare for the implementation of the new Missal translation, a workshop will be held in the Fall. A supplement for the Catholic Book of Worship will be placed in the pews this Fall. This supplement has some new music, the new Mass parts, and the “ordinary of the Mass” - those parts which do not change regardless of the feast or liturgical season.

The Novalis Sunday missal for the people will be available for sale in the month of November. These missals sell out very quickly. The people’s Sunday missals are meant for preparation at home. It’s a good practice to review before coming to Mass. The liturgy is a living reality and we are meant to participate with our singing, responses and listening.

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Parish Feast Day

This weekend is our Parish Feast Day Weekend. On this, our parish's feast day, we give thanks to Almighty God for all the graces and blessings that He has bestowed upon us, as a Parish Community and as individuals. As we do, it is a wonderful time to reflect upon, rejoice in, and seek the grace to continue responding to all that the Father is calling us to be as a Parish Family. WHAT IS A PARISH FEAST DAY ?

The richness of our Catholic faith believes in the intercession of saints. The patron saint of a particular group of people is a saint who has special affinity to that group, and whose attributes speaks to its members. Some consider asking a saint for intercession, rather than expecting to be answered themselves, as an act displaying humility, calling to mind what is written in the Book of Job 42:8.

Our Feast Day is celebrated on May 31. The Feast is of medieval origin and was only universally adopted in 1389. In 1969, Pope Paul VI moved the celebration to May 31, between the Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord and that of the Nativity of St. John the Baptist, "so that it would harmonize better with the Gospel story".

The Visitation is the encounter of the Virgin Mary and Elizabeth as recorded in the Gospel of Luke 1:39-56. Mary, having heard at the Annunciation that Elizabeth was six months pregnant, left her home to visit her. Elizabeth and John the Baptist were inspired by the Holy Spirit at her arrival; and Elizabeth ,seeing Mary’s faithfulness, cared for her giving her the opportunity to nourish the gift of life, Jesus, within her. Mary, surrounded by Elizabeth’s love, pronounced the "Magnificat". It is the second Joyful Mystery of the Rosary, with the Spiritual Fruit of a Love of Neighbour.

Thus as a parish community dedicated to Mary, under the title of Our Lady of the Visitation, this Feast reminds us of our call to love our neighbour, to be welcoming and to provide a place for others to grow nourishing the Lord within them. Our Parish Feast Day gives us all not only the opportunity to marvel at all that the Lord is doing in our midst, but also the occasion to rejoice!

After each Mass the members of the Knights of Columbus will be having their annual “Roses for Life” Appeal which assists Pro-Life Causes. Thank you to the Knights for all their good work in our parish and community. At our 11:00am Mass we will celebrate with 12 couples from our parish their Marriage Jubilees, we have 1 couple celebrating 55 years, 1 couple celebrating 50, 2 couples celebrating 40, 2 couples celebrating 35, 3 couples celebrating 25, 1 couple each celebrating 20, 10 and 5 years of married life. What a joy filled 11:00am Mass we will have! Then on Tuesday, May 31st, our actual feast day, 25 children will be a part of our “Crowning of Mary” with the celebration of Mass. Please join us at 7:00p.m. for this grace filled time.

I pray that our Parish Feast Day Weekend will provide many fond memories of our year to date, and that it may inspire us to continue to become who the Father is calling us to be

May Our Lady of the Visitation continue to be our inspiration, model and guide.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Celebrating With The Community On Sunday

We are currently celebrating First Holy Communion with over 90 young people in our parish family; it got me thinking about Celebrating With The Community On Sunday


PARTICIPATE REGULARLY - We are called by our baptism to participate in the Sunday Eucharist each week. Sunday is the Lord=s Day and all the baptized have a serious obligation to participate in the Sunday Eucharist every week on this day. In recent years there has developed among many Catholics a rather casual attitude toward Sunday Mass: attendance when convenient. Because of the nature of the Sunday Eucharist, which is to praise God for our common life in Christ and to build up the Body of Christ, our regular participation in the Sunday Eucharist is necessary. Our presence each Sunday serves to strengthen the faith of our brothers and sisters and renew Christ=s life within us. Parents have a special responsibility to give good example to their children by making participation in the Sunday Eucharist a priority in their family.

PARTICIPATE FULLY - During the past 35 years the Church has introduced many changes into the way we celebrate the Eucharist and other sacraments. All of these changes have been made to encourage us to participate Afully, consciously, and actively@ in the liturgy. Every parishioner has both the privilege and obligation to participate in the prayers, songs and actions of the Mass. Such participation is not reserved only for the Aministers.@

PREPARE FOR MASS - All of us are urged to prepare for Sunday Mass and our reception of Communion. Our preparation may include reflection on the gifts we have received from our gracious God C especially our life in Christ. We may read and reflect on the Scripture readings at home before coming to Mass. All of us are asked to observe the Eucharistic fast C to refrain from eating and drinking for one hour prior to communion. The celebration of Sunday Mass will touch our hearts and enrich our faith more powerfully if we prepare to celebrate.

REVERENCE THE RESERVED EUCHARIST - Outside of our celebration of Mass, we as Catholics have the practice of showing reverence for the Reserved Eucharist. Upon entering the church (and leaving it) it is our custom to genuflect C or make a profound bow C to the Blessed Sacrament, reserved in the tabernacle. Sadly, this custom is frequently not observed today. Sometimes people make no sign of reverence upon taking their seats. Other times a hurried, seemingly half-hearted genuflection in no particular direction is made. Every effort ought to be made to show a meaningful sign of reverence to the reserved sacrament and to teach our children to do so.

RECEIVING COMMUNION - When receiving communion, we are asked to do so with reverence and with faith. We show our reverence by the way we approach the sacrament slowly and deliberately and by the sign of reverence we make: e.g. a profound bow or the sign of the cross as we approach the minister. When receiving communion on the hand, we hold our hands with palms extended (one hand under the other, making a Athrone@ for our King) and consume the Body of the Lord immediately before returning to our seats. We receive the Blood of the Lord in a similarly reverent manner by taking the cup as it is presented to us and drinking reverently. If not receiving from the cup, it is appropriate to bow to the cup when passing it on returning to our places. In both instances, we express our faith in Christ=s Eucharistic presence by saying AAMEN@ in response to the minister=s words: The Body of Christ . . . The Blood of Christ.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Something to Think About

BUT FATHER, I GET BORED AT MASS"

I once attended a cricket match in Waterloo. Many people gathered dressed in their finest summer whites and straw hats. The players took their places in the lower field and we, the spectators, sat comfortably in our folding chairs. The games began and I had no clue what was going on. When people cheered, I cheered. I did not know why I was cheering, but I knew that it was the thing to do. Often this can be our experience at Mass. We sometimes know when to sit, when to stand, and when to say "and also with you," but we may not know why we do what we do.

To cure the boredom, one understands what we are engaging in and why we do what we do. It is understanding who is the Eucharist. Some practical things we can do to engage in the Mass are:

1) Pick up a Sunday missal: (The readings are the same all across the world!) It has all the readings for the year and read them before going to Mass. The readings are also found on our website www.stmaryhespeler.ca. Prepare before hand to get the most out of it when you are there.

2) Move from the back pew to the front pew, or at least plan to move one pew forward each Mass. (To have a better "view from the pew, you can know what to do"). Arriving a tad early also gives you time to focus, reflect and pray.

3) Read over and meditate on the Eucharistic prayers: these are the prayers the priest prays over the bread and wine, they are so rich and can help us with our faith lives. Listen for key words that touch you...that way you are not listening but praying.

4) Check our the religious articles displays at Church, or go to the local Christian bookstore and pick up some reading. There are several books on understanding the Mass. Surf the net and find some articles (i.e. www.vatican.va) Our own website has a number of links also - check it out.

5) Ask Father - sometimes a simple clarification of why we do something helps clear things up.

There are many other ways to delve into the mystery of the Holy Mass.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Happy Mother's Day

PRAYER FOR ALL MOTHERS

Eternal God, we ask Your blessing upon our mothers.

Bless all mothers who labour in the home for their families; give them courage and strength when the going gets rough.

Bless those mothers who are preparing for the birth of their child. Give eternal joy to our mothers whom you have called to be with You in eternal life.

We bring this prayer to Mary, the Mother of Your Only Son, so that she may intercede with Jesus our Lord who answers all our prayers. AMEN.

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Blessed Pope John Paul II

Today at four o’clock (EDT) the Mass at which Pope John Paul II will be declared “blessed” will begin in the exact place where little more than six years ago he lay for his funeral Mass. Saints do not get to be saints because every decision they made in life was correct or perfect. They are saints because of their personal holiness, their self-sacrificing service to the Gospel imperatives. In his life the focus was applying the Gospel to daily life. Blessed John Paul II had an unerring sense of popular piety and what it needed and when it could he helpful. With Blessed John Paul II’s soul mate, Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta, I have now been touched in my lifetime by two people whom the Church universal will likely soon refer to as “saints” but it didn’t take the process of Beaitification to convince me that these two were in different ways extraordinarily holy people.

I wish I could be there in person, but it will be wonderful to watch that vast piazza at St. Peters and the surrounding streets burst once again with people chanting as I know they will, “santo subito.” Blessed John Paul II, intercede with the Father to whom you are now close, to help this local Church serve all of God’s people.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Easter 2011




On this Easter Sunday we hear the great and glorious news that our Saviour is Risen! The pain of the passion, cross and death of Jesus, while not forgotten, has now been overwhelmed with an unbelievable outpouring of God's love for all humanity made visible through the gift of his Son. The Resurrection now becomes reality. The hope and promise of everlasting life with God has been given to us. We are now a new creation, called to go forth and proclaim the truth of the Resurrection.

We now begin the fifty days of Easter. For the next fifty days our liturgical readings will remind us and show us how we are to be the light of Christ to the world. Easter, just like Lent, will place before us new challenges to meet as we journey towards full discipleship. To be Mandatum to the world is to carry the light of Christ always, and to be nourished on this journey with the gift of Eucharist. In the glow of the Easter Candle let us now begin our new journey, the journey of Easter towards the celebration of Pentecost. May this Easter Season be a time of great blessings for you.

Happy Easter to all !

Friday, April 22, 2011

Good Friday




V/. We adore you, O Christ, and we bless you.
R/. Because by your holy Cross you have redeemed the world.
“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Lk 23:34).
At the height of his Passion, Christ does not forget man, especially those who are directly responsible for his suffering. Jesus knows that more than anything else man needs love; he needs the mercy which at this moment is being poured out on the world.
“Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise” (Lk 23:43).
This is how Jesus replies to the plea of the criminal hanging on his right: “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom” (Lk 23:42).
The promise of a new life. This is the first fruit of the Passion and imminent Death of Christ. A word of hope to man.
At the foot of the Cross stood Mary, and beside her the disciple, John the Evangelist. Jesus says: “Woman, behold your son!” and to the disciple: “Behold your mother!” (Jn 19:26-27).
“And from that moment the disciple took her to his own home” (Jn 19:27).
This is his bequest to those dearest to his heart. His legacy to the Church.

The desire of Jesus as he dies is that the maternal love of Mary should embrace all those for whom he is giving his life, the whole of humanity.
Immediately after, Jesus cries out: “I am thirsty” (Jn 19:28). A word which describes the dreadful burning which consumes his whole body.
It is the one word which refers directly to his physical suffering.

Then Jesus adds: “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?” (Mt 27:46; cf. Ps 22:2). These words of the Psalm are his prayer. Despite their tone, these words reveal the depths of his union with the Father.
In the last moments of his life on earth, Jesus thinks of the Father. From this moment on, the dialogue will only be between the dying Son and the Father who accepts his sacrifice of love.
When the ninth hour comes, Jesus cries out: “It is accomplished!” (Jn 19:30).
Now the work of the redemption is complete.
The mission, for which he came on earth, has reached its goal.
The rest belongs to the Father:
“Father, into your hands I commit my spirit” (Lk 23:46).
And having said this, he breathed his last.
“The curtain of the temple was torn in two...” (Mt 27:51).
The “Holy of Holies” of the Jerusalem Temple is opened at the moment when it is entered by the Priest of the New and Eternal Covenant.

PRAYER

Lord Jesus Christ,
in the moment of your agony
you were not indifferent to humanity’s fate,
and with your last breath
you entrusted to the Father’s mercy
the men and women of every age,
with all their weaknesses and sins.
Fill us and the generations yet to come
with your Spirit of love,
so that our indifference
will not render vain in us
the fruits of your death.
To you, crucified Jesus, the wisdom and the power of God,
be honour and glory for ever and ever.

Amen.

--Pope John Paul II
Meditations for the Via Crucis
Good Friday 2000

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Holy Week

HOLY WEEK MASS SCHEDULE

HOLY THURSDAY (April 21, 2011)7:00 p.m. - Mass celebrated by Bishop Matthew Ustrzycki followed by Procession of the Blessed Sacrament to the Repository with Adoration until 11:00 p.m.

GOOD FRIDAY (April 22, 2011)11:00 a.m. - Solemn Liturgy adapted for children
3:00 p.m. - Solemn Liturgy of Good Friday
7:00 p.m. - Stations of the Cross

HOLY SATURDAY (April 23, 2011)1:00 p.m. - Blessing of Easter Food
7:00 p.m. - Solemn Easter Vigil (This fulfills your Sunday obligation)
(There is no 5:00 p.m. Mass or Confessions today)

EASTER SUNDAY (April 24, 2011)8:00 a.m., 9:30 a.m., 11:00 a.m.


“Christ Has Died, Christ has Risen, Christ will come again”

The Easter faith of the Church is summarized in the above acclamation. To proclaim that Christ is risen is to say that God is alive, that God is with us, that God will never leave us. At a time when so many people are experiencing the devastating consequences of war and poverty, when people are carrying the cross of sickness and when family members are seeking to be reconciled with each other, we pray for the gift of peace: the peace of the Risen Lord.

As a parish family we celebrate and seek this peace during the Easter Triduum called Holy Week. In this festival of days, Christ's saving work is commemorated by the Church with the utmost solemnity. Through the liturgy of the Triduum, the church is intimately united with Christ and shares in His passage from death to life. The liturgies of the Triduum are the way we publicly celebrate the Easter Peace. They commemorate not only the historical events, but celebrate and make present their saving effect for us.

I invite you to come with your family to the celebrations of Holy Week. May our common celebration bring to each one of us a true and lasting sense of peace.

Together in the Lord’s Service

Father F. Freitas
Pastor



“We are connected to our past, committed to our future and compassionately focussed on being a Family of Faith, a place, with something for everyone”.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Come Home Weekend

NEXT WEEKEND (April 2 & 3, 2011) is our Come Home Weekend- it’s a special weekend to welcome Home friends who have been away. As I mentioned in the homily today we have an awesome opportunity to be the one who “sends the message” and invites someone to come and hear Christ speak to their hearts. In many ways next weekend is what we as a parish family have been working toward together for the past five years – getting our home ready to be a place for everyone. As our “guests” come next weekend they will find not only our usual warm welcome, but for many it will be their first time to see our new parish centre, parking lot, accessible facilities and to know about our many ministries and groups. For each “guest” a special “Welcome Package” has been prepared for them to pick up. Everyone will also have a chance to check out our religious articles display, get tickets for our Good Friday Fish Fry and also learn about ways to get more involved in the parish community. Please pray about who you will invite. Please pray that many hearts will be touched.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

The Pillars of Lent

The three traditional pillars of Lenten observance are prayer, fasting and almsgiving. The key to renewed appropriation of these practices is to see their link to baptismal renewal.

Prayer: More time given to prayer during Lent should draw us closer to the Lord. We might pray especially for the grace to live out our baptismal promises more fully. We might pray for the elect who will be baptized at Easter and support their conversion journey by our prayer. We might pray for all those who will celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation with us during Lent that they will be truly renewed in their baptismal commitment.

Fasting: Fasting is one of the most ancient practices linked to Lent. In fact, the paschal fast predates Lent as we know it. The early Church fasted intensely for two days before the celebration of the Easter Vigil. This fast was later extended and became a 40-day period of fasting leading up to Easter. Vatican II called us to renew the observance of the ancient paschal fast: "...let the paschal fast be kept sacred. Let it be celebrated everywhere on Good Friday and, where possible, prolonged throughout Holy Saturday, so that the joys of the Sunday of the Resurrection may be attained with uplifted and clear mind" (Liturgy, # 110).
Fasting is more than a means of developing self-control. It is often an aid to prayer, as the pangs of hunger remind us of our hunger for God. The first reading on the Friday after Ash Wednesday points out another important dimension of fasting. The prophet Isaiah insists that fasting without changing our behavior is not pleasing to God. "This, rather, is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs of the yoke; setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke; sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own" (Is 58:6-7).

Fasting should be linked to our concern for those who are forced to fast by their poverty, those who suffer from the injustices of our economic and political structures, those who are in need for any reason. Thus fasting, too, is linked to living out our baptismal promises. By our Baptism, we are charged with the responsibility of showing Christ's love to the world, especially to those in need. Fasting can help us realize the suffering that so many people in our world experience every day, and it should lead us to greater efforts to alleviate that suffering.

Abstaining from meat traditionally also linked us to the poor, who could seldom afford meat for their meals. It can do the same today if we remember the purpose of abstinence and embrace it as a spiritual link to those whose diets are sparse and simple. That should be the goal we set for ourselves—a sparse and simple meal. Avoiding meat while eating lobster misses the whole point!

Almsgiving: It should be obvious at this point that almsgiving, the third traditional pillar, is linked to our baptismal commitment in the same way. It is a sign of our care for those in need and an expression of our gratitude for all that God has given to us. Works of charity and the promotion of justice are integral elements of the Christian way of life we began when we were baptized.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Welcome Home

Even now says the Lord, “Return to me with your whole heart”. The Good News is our God still wants us back. Like the Father of the Prodigal Son, God is anxious for us to return to Him. It is a homecoming. Blow the trumpet in Zion! Proclaim a fast! Gather the people.

Lent is such a special time in our year. It is a time of new beginnings, of reviewing our lives in the light of the Gospel, to deepen our conversion and to draw closer to God and to one another.

The ashes on our forehead, which mark the start of Lent, are to remind us that we are pilgrims in this world. One day death will end that pilgrimage and we will have to render an account of our stewardship. How did we use our talents, our treasure, our time? Did we make this a better world by our love and generosity? If we have been living selfish and self-absorbed lives, Lent is an opportunity to clean up our obituary, to change the direction of our life. Change is never easy. We need a lot of help and we need a plan. Lent first of all, must be a renewal in the life of prayer. There can be no growth in faith and holiness without prayer. Each day we need time and space for God.

Hence, our first Lenten resolution should be about our prayer life. Daily reading from the Gospels and the Scriptures can be a very important way to deepen our prayer life, to find direction and encouragement in the Word of God. Jesus wants us to know His voice and to ponder His words in our heart.

This Lent our parish is in the midst of an initiative rooted in prayer - to invite people who have stepped away to reconnect with the Life of the Church. We all need to realize that the Church exists to evangelize, to make disciples of all nations. It is our responsibility to reach out and encourage those around us to be members of Christ’s family, the Church.

The second reading for Ash Wednesday is from St. Paul who writes: “We are ambassadors for Christ as if God were appealing through us. We implore you on their behalf. It is my hope that our Welcome Home Weekend on April 2& 3 will encourage all of us to be ambassadors for Christ, inviting our friends, acquaintances and even strangers to be followers of Christ. It is important that an ambassador present well. Often they are housed in magnificent residences and fulfill a special role in making their presidents or rulers present in the new country. Being an ambassador for Christ does not require a fancy residence or clothes, but that we express the Lord’s concern to gather us into God’s family.

In the past, we have often asked our Catholics to practice the corporal works of mercy…to feed the hungry, provide clothes and shelter, visit the sick and prisoners. But we sometimes forget that these are also spiritual works of mercy; to instruct the uninformed, counsel the doubtful, admonish sinners, bear wrongs patiently, forgive offenses willingly, comfort the afflicted and to pray for the living and the dead.

I consider our Welcome Back Weekend as a Spiritual Work of Mercy. It expresses our concern about people’s interior life, their relationship with God, their spiritual hunger. We want people to know Christ and His love, because we believe that in Christ we find the answers to life questions and come to eternal happiness.

The Church exists to evangelize and this Holy Season of Lent is a special time of opportunity. And so as the Prophet tells us, “Sound the trumpet, proclaim a fast, gather the people and invite the Family to come home”.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Ash Wednesday


Ash Wednesday liturgies are some of the best attended in the entire year. Some people suggest that is just because the Church is giving out something free, but I suspect there are deeper reasons! Ashes are an ancient symbol of repentance (sackcloth and ashes). They also remind us of our mortality ("remember that you are dust") and thus of the day when we will stand before God and be judged. This can be linked easily to the death and resurrection motif of Baptism. To prepare well for the day we die, we must die now to sin and rise to new life in Christ. Being marked with ashes at the beginning of Lent indicates our recognition of the need for deeper conversion of our lives during this season of renewal.

I hope that you will join our parish family for Ash Wednesday - Mass is at 8:00a.m. and 7:00p.m. and we have two Liturgies of the Word at 9:30a.m. and 1:00p.m. involving the children of our two parish elementary schools. Please come. Welcome Home!

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Pastoral Letter for Lent 2011

Each year the forty days of Lent offer us an opportunity to deepen our awareness of the presence of God in our lives. This year, our parish Year of Evangelization, offers us a special opportunity for personal and communal renewal in discovering His Name. I highlight for you a few activities:

 During Lent, every Monday, Mass will be celebrated at 8:00a.m. I encourage you during Lent, if possible, to attend Mass during one of our weekdays.

 Tuesday Night Together - Lenten Edition. Two special evenings - March 15 & 29 will provide a general overview of the some of the basics of our Catholic faith...How do we Understand Mass? What are the Sacraments about? These take place within a little extended homily at Mass itself at 7:00p.m.- the entire evening will be done in one hour.

 Lenten Parish Mission from April 9-12, Father Ian Duffy will preach at the Lord’s Day Masses and then on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday evening lead us in reflecting upon the question “Lord To Whom Shall We Go?”. The Sacrament of Reconciliation will be celebrated on Tuesday evening. Please set these dates aside for this special time of grace.

 Stations of the Cross will be prayed each Friday evening at 7:00p.m. We encourage you to come out and use this opportunity for spiritual growth.

 Visits to the Homebound and Sick. During the Season of Lent I wish to make special visits to each of our homebound parishioners to celebrate the Sacrament of the Sick individually with each - families are asked to call our parish office to arrange a home visit during Lent for this.
 Come Home Weekend will be April 2 & 3, 2011- it’s a special weekend to welcome Home friends who have been away. Please pray about who you will invite.

I pray that these next 40 days will be for us a time of proclaiming His name and a time when His vision for us as a parish family will be fulfilled - a time when we will better discover His name, Our Name, the Name of His Church and One Another’s name - that way we shall hear -“ Bravo - well done good and faithful friend!”

May Our Lady of the Visitation continue to be our help and guide.

Together in the Lord’s Service:
Father F. Freitas
Pastor

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Seasons are Changing.....


Is winter hard to endure because it’s dark or because it’s cold? In the dark, we can’t see and easily become disoriented. In the cold, we can’t grow or live. People need light and they need warmth. Disciples of Jesus need faith to see what physical eyes alone cannot discern, and they need charity, love that gives supernatural life that lasts forever. Our souls are sometimes in winter, uncertain about what they believe and isolated from God’s love. Then we yearn for the springtime.

Remembering God’s goodness to us in the past, we know the spring will come and, with it, light and warmth.It hard to believe that the month of February almost over, but with that disbelief does come the promise of Spring not being far off. Seasons do change, and so too Liturgically, on March 9th we begin the Season of Lent – that’s the date of Ash Wednesday this year. A reminder that Ash Wednesday Mass is at 8:00am and 7:00pm. Liturgies of the Word will also be held at our two parish schools.

On another note, today we had our Annual Road Hockey Tournament - Wize Guys (Men's Groups) vs Da Crew (High Schoolers). Congratulations to the Wize Guys who are the owners of "the Golden Stick" four years in a row. Our high schoolers had the greatest turnout yet of players - awesome! A great roast beef dinner was had by all participants after - a great time - thanks to all you came !

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

The Month of February

The month of February has been an active and very blessed one in the life of our parish; it has also been a busy one in the life of its Pastor, so sorry for not posting in a few weeks; here are some highlights from the month of February.

February 6th was the launch of our parish "E Newsletter" - " Sursum Corda " which translates“Lift up Your Hearts”, comes from the opening dialogue to the Preface of the Eucharistic Prayer in the Mass and dates back to at least the 3rd century. The dialogue is recorded in the earliest liturgies of the Christian Church, and is found in all ancient rites, and is one of the most ancient exchanges in liturgy between the priest and the people. As I begin this first weekly “E Newsletter”; I thought it to be a good title for I wish this exchange between myself - your priest - and you - my family - to be about lifting our hearts together in the Lord’s Service.

Our youth ministry has been busy in February - our Kids Klub has been reaching out to over 50 Grade 5-8 young people each Friday night with some fun and faith; this included a Raptors Game this month. Speaking of youth, don’t forget our Fundraising Opportunity with Boston Pizza which was announced last week - check the Church Entrance for additional information and flyers if you missed out on the details. Speaking of Pizza - well - Pizza with Padre is our outreach to our Confirmation Candidates as part of our Activ8 group. It will be on February 19th and February 26th in our Parish Centre, and is an opportunity, not only for our young people to interact with me, but also for our high school youth ministry (Da Crew) members to do some modelling as small group leaders. Please pray for the success of these two evenings and for all we do in Youth Ministry at our parish.

Our Stewardship weekend was held and was a great chance foremost to give thanks to Almighty God for the blessings He has given to our parish community especially this past year of 2010. We continue to grow as a parish family and it is such a joy every weekend to welcome new faces to our family table!

Our Spaghetti Supper was held on February 13th and was a great celebration and a very successful one. Congratulation to our outstanding Fundraising Committee for the excellent job which they did in organizing this “Super Bowl of Pasta”. So many happy, and sauce stained, faces commented on the great food, the great number of young families present and the great feeling of family – it was a joy and another great testament to the outstanding Family of Faith we have here at St Mary of the Visitation!

Our 4th Annual – Road Hockey and Roast Beef afternoon will be held on February 27th. The Wize Guys are seeking to make their “hat trick” of three years of victories into a four year dynasty. Da Crew is seeking to put to an end what they call “an injustice”. I hope you will come and cheer on our high schoolers and men as they are a part of this wonderful fraternal time together, the puck is dropped at 2:00pm in our Parish Centre parking lot.

40 Days for Life is an annual opportunity to stand and witness to the sacredness of the gift of life and the tragedy of abortion. St Mary of the Visitation Parish will be taking Saturday April 2, 2011 as our day; this is a first for us. Sign up sheets are in the Parish Centre. I encourage your participation.

Well, that is just the highlights - lots more going on. Remember there is something for everyone at St Mary of the Visitation - and there is a place for you!

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Somethings to Think About .....

Writing about funerals at the beginning of this new year may seem a bit depressing, but it has been on my mind for some time now to address general issues surrounding funerals in the church, issues which often come up in conversations with parishioners. In a question and answer format, I would like to attempt to answer some of the most commonly asked queries about funerals and the Church.

Q. Is it okay to have a loved ones body cremated immediately after death, and then bring the cremated remains (in an urn) to the church for a funeral?
A. First of all, a liturgy (with or without mass) where only ashes are present is not considered a funeral. A funeral is celebrated when the body is present. A liturgy without a body or with only the urn of ashes present is called a Memorial Mass or a Memorial Service. The Church prefers and asks Catholics to have a funeral Mass with the body present. There is a great deal of difference between the way we treat the body (which was the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit since baptism) and the way we approach the idea of an urn with ashes. Proof of this is in the fact that we wouldn’t even consider having a casket sitting in our living room for a year or two with a loved one inside, yet many people have urns with the ashes of their loved ones in them on their mantles, basements or in a closet at home. It’s just not the same. For this reason, the Church prefers that even if the family wishes that their deceased loved one be cremated, or if it was the wishes of the deceased to be cremated, the body should be cremated after the funeral liturgy has taken place.

Q. If I do choose to be cremated, does it matter what is done with the ashes?
A. Yes. The Church asks that her children be buried, whether it be ashes or a body in a casket, in consecrated ground. Catholic cemeteries now increasingly offer places of repose for cremation urns that are both dignified and also offer the living loved ones a ‘place’ to go and visit, pray and remember their loved one in the midst of the vast family of Catholic faithful who have gone before them and await resurrection. Rather than being places of morbid sadness, cemeteries are open shrines to our faith in the Resurrection of the dead.

Q. How does a Memorial Mass with ashes present differ from a Funeral Mass with the body present?
A. At a Funeral Mass with the body present,
 The casket is brought into the church and is greeted by the celebrant, servers and congregation recalling how the beloved deceased first came into the Church through baptism, recalling our hope in prayer that God will now fulfill his promise of eternal life to the one who has died. The sprinkling of the casket with Holy Water recalls the deceased person’s death and resurrection in Christ through baptism.
 The casket is covered with a white pall which symbolizes our baptismal garment, when we were “clothed with the garment of salvation”. It also serves to remind us through its presence throughout the Funeral Liturgy that in the eyes of God we are all the same and does not focus on expensive or economical caskets.
 The casket is taken to the foot of the sanctuary and is given a prime place throughout the liturgy. Everyone in attendance at the Mass can participate in the Mass with a remembering eye to the loved one who has died.
 At the end of the liturgy, prayers of commendation are said before the casket and Holy Water is sprinkled and the body is incensed by the priest.
 Following the conclusion of the Mass and commendation prayers, the casket is taken out of the church in procession and is sprinkled with Holy Water once again after the pall has been removed.

At a Memorial Mass with ashes in an urn,
■ The urn is brought into the church and placed on a suitable table at the front of the church and to the right or left of the sanctuary before the Memorial Mass . There is no greeting of the body, sprinkling with Holy Water, Incense, nor is a pall used. The urn is not to be placed in the center aisle.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

SOME THINGS TO THINK ABOUT ......

A few times each month of Parish Bulletin will feature an insert entitled "SOME THINGS TO THINK ABOUT ......",they will feature some facts on the faith which we may have forgotten or can learn for the first time. These are meant not to scold, but encourage. I truly hope they are received in the light in which they are shared - to help us grow in our lives of faith.

"But Father, I get bored at Mass"

I once attended a cricket match in Waterloo. Many people gathered dressed in their finest summer whites and straw hats. The players took their places in the lower field and we, the spectators, sat comfortably in our folding chairs. The games began and I had no clue what was going on. When people cheered, I cheered. I did not know why I was cheering, but I knew that it was the thing to do. Often this can be our experience at Mass. We sometimes know when to sit, when to stand, and when to say "and also with you," but we may not know why we do what we do.

To cure the boredom, one understands what we are engaging in and why we do what we do. It is understanding who is the Eucharist. Some practical things we can do to engage in the Mass are:

1) Pick up a Sunday missal: (The readings are the same all across the world!) It has all the readings for the year and read them before going to Mass. The readings are also found on our website www.stmaryhespeler.ca. Prepare before hand to get the most out of it when you are there.

2) Move from the back pew to the front pew, or at least plan to move one pew forward each Mass. (To have a better "view from the pew, you can know what to do"). Arriving a tad early also gives you time to focus, reflect and pray.

3) Read over and meditate on the Eucharistic prayers: these are the prayers the priest prays over the bread and wine, they are so rich and can help us with our faith lives. Listen for key words that touch you...that way you are not “listening” but “praying”.

4) Check our the religious articles displays at Church, or go to the local Christian bookstore and pick up some reading. There are several books on understanding the Mass. Surf the net and find some articles (i.e. www.vatican.va) Our own website has a number of links also - check it out.

5) Ask Father - sometimes a simple clarification of “why” we do something helps clear things up.
There are many other ways to delve into the mystery of the Holy Mass.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Haiti - One Year Late - an Update

An Update on Haiti Relief Efforts - one year later

One year ago the eyes of the world were focussed upon the destruction that a 7.0 scale earthquake caused in the island nation of Haiti, and especially its hard-hit capital, Port-au-Prince. In many areas nothing was left but widespread devastation. During the year since that event, as a parish family, we aided, thru the Sisters of St Joseph of Hamilton Diocese. Our own parish was able to send during 2010 a total of $ 23,023.23 in donations to help with direct aid, and also sent 2,348 Haiti Health Kits to the area which were used in Port-au-Prince University Hospital and The Hospital of Peace, Delmas where the Sisters of St Joseph of Hamilton Diocese have for over twenty years been directly involved in the lives of the Haitian people.

Our parish Children’s Ministry and Kids Klub, each, for over three years sponsored children in Haiti thru our parish child sponsorship initiative. We continued this past year to correspond and financially aid Darby, James and Franceska as we sought to effect these lives directly. This time last year, the prayer below was our focus - may we pray it again this week as Haiti continues to rebuild.

Prayer for the People of Haiti

Loving God,
through your Son Jesus,
we are joined with the trials and sufferings of all.
Be with those who endure
the effects of the earthquake in Haiti.
Protect those in the path of danger.
Open the pathway of evacuations.
Help loved ones find one another in the chaos.
Provide assistance to those who need help.
Ease the fears of all
and make your presence known
in the stillness of your peace;
through Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord.
Amen.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Pastoral Letter for 2011

Most recently I met with a young couple who were presenting their child for Baptism. They had both been raised Catholic, had attended Catholic school, received the Sacraments but, they admitted, had not been to church in sometime. They wanted to pass on the faith to their child, but they stated, “we don’t know it”. I was touched by their honesty, but also saddened by the reality which they were presenting - “we don’t know it”. We all know people like the young couple. In spite of the genuine and sometimes heroic efforts on the part of parents, teachers and parish religious education programs, we all have to admit that sometimes the first time around, the message simply isn’t heard.

Today, however, there are many opportunities for people to hear again, this time for the first time, who Jesus is, what He accomplished for us and how in the Sacraments of His Church, He is present to us.

Pope Benedict XVI has introduced for us what we call the New Evangelization. It is all about retelling the story, this time awakening a sense of meeting Jesus. Pope Benedict used the word “repropose” to describe the New Evangelization. Somehow in what we do and how we express our faith, we have to be able to repropose our belief in Christ and His Gospel for a hearing among those who are convinced that they already know the faith and it holds no interest for them. We have to invite them to hear it all over again, this time for the first time and see how it is connected to them and to their life.

In 2011, our parish family will be embarking upon a number of efforts toward this New Evangelization. These will build upon the efforts of the past four years to make our Family of Faith a home with “something for everyone” and our recent building efforts to ensure “a place for everyone.” How will we do this ?

First, for each of us personally, our personal prayer life becomes the font of living waters from which we drink as we set out to walk with the Lord in sowing the seeds of the Gospel message. The call to discipleship involves us welcoming Jesus into our everyday lives. We can do this by beginning and ending our days in prayer, by reading Scripture each day and reflecting on how to make it a part of our life and by considering some time in Eucharistic Adoration. We always draw closer to Jesus by faithfully attending Mass each Lord’s Day, and receiving our Lord in the Eucharist - nothing can replace this. We also come closer to Him by accepting His love and mercy regularly in the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Second, the New Evangelization should overflow into the very society in which we live. Together, our parochial commitment will spread and extend the immense pastoral fruitfulness of the Gospel. Together, as faithful citizens, we must be strong enough to adjust even the cultural climate in our society so that the temperature is right for the new Springtime of which Pope John Paul II spoke so often. Groups in our parish will be asked this year to consider personal outreach efforts which will build upon our current community outreach activities such as Service Saturday, Red Stocking and Blanket Brigade Campaigns. These will help the transformation of culture and help others to see the application of the message of Jesus to serve the common good of humanity.

Third, we have to ensure that “we do know it”.... Recently, while standing in the lobby of a hotel, I was approached by a person whom I had not seen in years. This person chatted me up for a while and then indicated that they had left the Catholic faith. I was saddened to hear of it, and wondered why. They proceeded to tell me about their interpretation of one of the teachings of the Church. As I listened intently I asked them “where did you get that understanding?” - they told me from a family member. Well, I said respectfully, “they were wrong - the Catholic faith has never taught that”. This person seemed shocked when I told them what the actual Church teaching was, and concerned that they had made a life decision without knowing all the facts.

Over the next year, through homiletic efforts, special speakers, a rich Lenten Mission, bulletin inserts and various publications which will be made available, we will try and ensure that “we do know it - our Catholic Faith - for there are many misconceptions, misunderstandings and mistakes which can at times hinder people discovering the powerful message of Jesus found within His Church.

It means looking at all we do through a new lens, it means reaching out in new ways, such as a redesigned website to better engage people with the Church, a new weekly email newsletter to reach parishioners directly, expanded parish blogs and Facebook links, a “Come Home” effort this Lent, and consideration of every program we offer in the parish through the lens of the New Evangelization.

Finally, our new evangelization will become a lived reality if we go back to the root of what we are about as a parish family - the Visitation.

The Visitation is the encounter of the Virgin Mary and Elizabeth as recorded in the Gospel of Luke 1:39-56. Mary, having heard at the Annunciation that Elizabeth was six months pregnant, left her home to visit her. Elizabeth and John the Baptist were inspired by the Holy Spirit at her arrival; and Elizabeth, seeing Mary’s faithfulness, cared for her, giving her the opportunity to nourish the gift of life, Jesus, within her. Mary, surrounded by Elizabeth’s love, pronounced the "Magnificat". It is the second Joyful Mystery of the Rosary, with the Spiritual Fruit of a Love of Neighbour.

Thus as a parish community dedicated to Mary, under the title of Our Lady of the Visitation, this Feast reminds us of our call to love our neighbour, to be welcoming and to provide a place for others to grow, nourishing the Lord within them.

As a parish family we will make significant efforts this year toward hospitality, welcoming new members and telling others about our parish family. These will be seen in simple gestures such as “Bring a Friend Sunday”, and also thru your weekly effort to simply welcome visitors and others, making them feel at home (something we already do so very well as a parish family).

Many of those who have fallen away come to have their children baptized, attend meetings for sacramental preparation. They may come to Mass on Christmas and Easter, or on the anniversary of the death of a loved one. I see them on my pastoral rounds. These are moments to invite not to scold. These are times which are, by the power of the Holy Spirit, already made new and contain a summons for us tirelessly to invite and cheerfully to welcome, in a personal and caring way, the return of someone we have missed for a long time so that they may willingly recommit to the Lord. In this way we become an instrument of His presence and action in the world.

The New Evangelization is not a program. It is an outlook on life and a personal invitation to rediscover Christ and His message. In 2011 let us reflect together on how we can renew the Gospel message and Christ’s love, first in our own hearts and then, having grown in our faith, by inviting others to hear once again, maybe all over again for the first time, the exciting invitation of Jesus: “Come, follow me.”This can start with something as simple as participating more in the Sacraments, a direct conversation about Catholicism, offering to pray for someone or inviting a friend to Mass.

How will we accomplish all this ? Well simply put - by God’s grace ! The leaven of all we do always comes from the sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross. Strengthened by the Eucharist, every sacrifice we make participates directly in the Cross of Jesus. Sacrifice is the path to newness. It is the Eucharist that brings newness to human life. The Eucharist strengthens our unity and draws our personal commitment to the Faith. From the Eucharist we gain the strength and readiness to approach inactive Catholics with friendly persistence.

This is a fresh moment for our Family of Faith because it is a new moment in our world. In an increasingly secular and materialistic society, what gives true and lasting meaning and joy is Christ and His message. From the renewal of faith by individual Catholics to their invitation to others to share in the joy and excitement of Christ and His Church comes the possibility of a world transformed.

May Our Lady of the Visitation continue to be our inspiration, model and guide.

Together in the Lord’s Service:

Father F. Freitas,
Pastor

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year

PRAYER FOR THE NEW YEAR
Loving and Eternal God,
every good gift comes from You.

As we begin this New Year,
grant us unwavering faith,
constant hope, and love that endures.

Give order to our days, peace in our work,
everlasting happiness in our families,
and joy in our walk of faith.
Amen.

Mary, Mother of God
On New Year’s Day, we celebrate the beginning of a new calendar year. The Church has established it as the Feast of Mary, the Mother of God. Who better than the Blessed Virgin Mary to be a model for our beginning a New Year? Our Blessed Lady was the one whose freely-given consent allowed the plan of God to unfold. It was she who always centered her life on the Son to whom she had given birth.

The Blessed Virgin Mary has always had a special place in the life of the Church. She is honoured not only for the unique privileges accorded her by God Himself, but also for her personal faith response to the Lord’s Will for her. She remains Mother of God and Mother of the Church. May the pattern of her faith be an inspiration for our lives and growth as a parish.